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man cold!




crack me right up.  chris has been 'sick' and our house all knows about it
im sick and nothing changes....
hummmmmmm............

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home schooling in the know!

my friend jodie shared this linky on f/b today, i love it so much i wanted to share it the linky loo

http://www.hsclassroom.net/10-things-every-new-homeschooler-needs-to-know/

 or the copy paste 10 things every new homeschooler needs to know

 1. There is no perfect curriculum – Don’t spend your every waking moment searching for the perfect curriculum, it’s not out there. You will find methods that work better than others, but nothing is absolutely perfect and will probably take a bit of tweaking here and there.

 2. Relationships are more important than books – Sometimes it’s necessary to put aside the books and work on relationships. Homeschooling is a family lifestyle, not just another form of school.

 3. Do what works for your family – Keep your eyes on your own work and don’t fall into the comparison trap.

 4. Be willing to let some things go – It’s challenging to have a perfectly decorated home, a spotlessly clean home, laundry caught up and a gourmet meal on the table every single day. It’s okay to let one (or more!) of those things go. You haven’t failed as a wife, mom, or teacher.

 5. Be flexible – Be willing to put the books away if a friend calls and invites you on a picnic. Be willing to be spontaneous and flexible; it can be some of the best learning days.

 6. Set goals – How do you know how far you’ve come if you don’t know where you started?

 7. Write a mission statement – Write down your “why” so you can refer to it on those crazy “why am I doing this?” days

 8. Expect criticism – Not everyone is going to agree with your decision to homeschool. Be confident you are making the right choice for your family.

 9. Everyone feels like quitting at some point – It’s true. Everyone feels like throwing in the towel at some point. Really.

 10. Have fun learning together as a family, but every lesson doesn’t need to be fun! – Some things in life just have to be done whether we find them fun or not. Same is true of school. Sometimes we have to buckle down and do hard things.

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the past few days

 i got my front room cleaned!  tree is down and put away, and it's all cleaned and ready until next year....i am playing with the idea of turning it into the school room....

nap time!!!

so, ellie has this trick she's started about a week ago. around 11:30ish she tells me she wants a nap, climbs the stairs, goes to her room, turns hr music on, takes her blanket and sookie and climbs (or tries to) in the chair....it's so funny!
 almost there!
 hahaha

she does it at night too when she's tired and wants to sleep....around 6. ha
 i walked into the room the other day to this
my heart
i asked nate what they were doing and he said he was telling her a story
 playing with her doll house!
 we took the kids to the aquatic center sat/sun for some inside fun.  i brought my camera and took 1 pic. this one. haha
 then aunty jess came for a visit! she joined us sunday after church, came with us to the aquatic center and chilled with us for a few days it was a great visit!  come again aunty jess!
 sharing secrets in the kitchen
 reading about ninja's and legos. ha
we started nate back to school yesterday, i wasn't sure how it was going to go because it's normal to have a few rough starting days after a vacation and we had aunty jess here. i was pleasantly surprised  that i had no issues with nate at all. none. he has 2 stickers on his chart to show for it.

 i am mixing up his curriculum choices for this semester. i am sticking to the 3 main courses, reading, math and writing/spelling.  i was going to do science and geography with him but after going through the books over the break i realized that i would have to sit with him to help him read the bigger words...this is not something i want to do (forced to sit with him through his lessons) and because i am the teacher it's important that i am happy too. haha.  so ive decided to spend this winter boosting his reading to the point that next year he would be able to do most of it himself....leaving me to do other things....

nate works about 80% of the time alone. i am there to facilitate, check his work and help him with larger words but for the most part i've laid the lessons out that all he does is get his books and start with out me.  now that we are in the kitchen, he sits at the table and i am free to make supper, bake something, do laundry, check emails etc...but i do enjoy sitting beside him...and i do teach him his lessons, but have him do the work book alone

that's us in a nut shell!  how are you? 3 comments

can you see me?

waking up this am, lacking the bounce that in normally in my step when i wake up (insert sarcasm)

 i dropped out of bed, got ellie dressed, headed down for breaky, took nate's breakfast order (egg mcmuffin) and ellie's (oatmeal) i popped my coffee cup in the machine, brewed my java. finished nate's muffin, fed ellie.  

as i went to clear the table, ellie my darling girl grabbed nate's bowl of cherrios (his before breaky snack) and dropped them on the floor.  i got ellie down, cleaned her up, turned on the vacuum and cleaned up the mess...during this routine process i looked up and saw ellie clap her hands with delight and wonder as the vacuum sucked up the cherrio's.  

after clearing the table, i got my now cold coffee and nuked it. there is nothing like cold, nuked coffee. made my own breaky and ate as fast as i could...knowing the quiet won't last long. 

it didn't. in between poopy diapers, tossing laundry in the washer, cleaning scary things off the wall, taking/collecting the garbage, smelling another nasty diaper and fixing that, returning a few emails, reading some more books, listening to nate share his excitement about how he made it to the next level of mindcraft...etc....etc.....etc....

i realized that although i am working my tired butt off this am, it will never been seen or noticed.  no one will write a article about how awesome i am at diaper changes, while talking on the phone. at the same time.  no one will come to my house and declare "mel!  your new shower liner looks awesome against the clean tub and cotton shower curtain!  great job! and look at that toilet! it's amazing!  you go girl!"  

as i pause my typing to watch ellie climb up the slide all by herself and clap "ellie! you go girl!  great job!!!"  i realized that there is nothing else i'd rather do than be exactly where i am right now.  home with my kids.  

so as you go about your regular, mundane job remember "whatever you do, do it with enthusiasm and wholeheartedly not for man but for god" col 3:23

i know god sees how awesome i am at diapers and late night cuddles.  

happy stormy friday!
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blocks/new years projects!

 i fianlly got to start my block project.  new yrs eve. ha.  i got the idea from our kids ministry program, it was one of the projects we choose not to use. i found my own download on line (so i did not use orange for my personal use)  i printed them out in color, cut them out and had chris cut up a bunch of blocks from an old 2x4 that he wasnt using. i then got a modge poge (sp???) for paper and wood and simply glued the paper onto the blocks.  it took 3 coats and voila done!

the kids love playing with them and i am finding them all over the house to prove that. haha

nate's new years book

i printed a bunch of different questions/printable from a bunch of different sites (all for home school/personal use copy write) and made my own book for him
 i had him start it yesterday, he answers the questions when he feels like it. i told him when he's done i will put it away for next yr to read and save for the future
 the blocks on display which was taken a part right after this pic was taken.  chris is a bit surprised by how the kids have taken to them
 working on his book, while ellie sneaks in another snack!
and  now  to start another new year!  i plan on spending the day taking down the tree and cleaning but so far i have eaten, slept and had another snack and another nap. haha. oops...

chris and i had a wonderful night last night. i planned a surprised in house date for him, i put the kids to bed and we spent the evening doing adult things bawahhhhh  it was so nice. quiet. what a great way to start the new year

i wonder what this year will bring us? ................... 2 comments

home school rambles!



with a yr under my belt and 15+ yrs left ahead, i have learnt, discovered and enjoyed my journey through this crazy world of home education! and i wanna share them with you! cause, that's what i do...im an open book, i wear my emotions on my sleeves so you can see. ha

starting out last yr was rough. not gonna lie about it.  i was alone, felt alone and cried a lot.  i was also adjusting to a new born, healing from the pregnancy and learning to live with chris being around more (he was on pat leave)  i joked a few months back at home school get together that i quit every friday from sept-dec. i wish it was a joke, i did quit in my mind. i even looked up and got the contact info for the school nate would have been going to; more than once. ha. i   got his bus route and teacher's name but for some reason, each monday morning i couldn't make the call

one wkend in late nov. i was crying on chri's shoulders again about how miserable and alone i was.  all my friends and i mean all of them had sent their kids to school that past fall. i didn't.  i was scared.  i felt the weight of nate's education rest completely on my shoulders.  most days it got to the point that i didn't even like my own kid! i lost my patience time after time and got jealous when i missed out on another social gathering of the mom's that don't have kids at home...i felt that their invites was rubbing (gloating?) their freedom in my face, while i struggled on. alone.  that night, as i snotted over chris's shoulder...he asked me why i was h/s...i was very evasive about answering...finally he said something along the lines of "mel i will support you no matter what. if you want nate in public school im ok with that.  if you want to keep h/s im ok with that too but what is the main reason why you are doing this?"  and he threw the one dreaded question at me "what has god called you to do?"

with a sob and fear.  a fear so strong it kept me pinned to his chest while i mumbled along the lines of "what does it matter about god?  h/s is too hard and i want out"

chris,knowing me so well asked me a question that changed everything. he asked if he could take the weight and the burden of the responsibility of nate's and ellie's education and carry it for me.  he asked if he could be the one that would carry the burden of it for me, so i could be free to be me."  kinda like god wants us to do right? hahahaha 

i kept my head on his shoulders for a few more minutes and with snot on my face, hair messed up i put on my big girl pants and said "god has called me to home educate our kids" 

and that was that. i haven't looked back.  i don't compare myself to anyone else. what they do for school (or don't) 

i have however observed a few thing about home schooling in general i thought i'd share....

-if i had .01 for every. single. time.  i have heard "you are so lucky, i don't have the patience to do it" i'd be in florida right now.  no, i do NOT have patience for it. but anyone can home school!

-socialization- im not even touching this. it's so out to lunch and a waste of my quite typing time to elaborate on this outdate and narrow minded view towards home education

-grade levels....ummm what are those?  h/s usually work at their kids pace, public schools make grade levels for the kids....nate is in grade what ever he's working at!

-ive seen with my own eyes and heard from the teachers that h/s kids play/work/socialize well with all age levels.  there is nothing like watching a 10 yr old stop and help a 5 yr old during gym class

-there is little, if any concept of "cool".  so clothing, games, t.v, materialistic things are not labeled as anything

-close family relationships.  i have seen this over and over. the families are close and tight and opposite to that is 'normal' teens actually grow closer to their parents as they age, not separate

-we don't understand home work, what is that?  or snow days.  or tests/exams/report cards (at least for the lower levels)

-the kids wear what they want. no one tells them it's not cool. or silly.  personally, i love seeing the kids wear their fun clothing choices....no one can have too many spider-mans at science class


-one last thought before i get ellie up from her nap. ha.  the stereotype that home schooled are weird or socially unaware is simply not true....i have met many, many public schooled kids that are quite odd.....cough......

so there you go.  an off the cuff blog on home education ramblings and such!

happy new years eve eve!

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snow day!

 the weather yesterday was perfect for some snow fun.  personally, i loath the cold and pretty much hibernate from nov-march.  i consider myself an active mom during the warm weather but not so much when it's cold. anyways. i also forced chris to join us....

nate did some practice slides in front of the house while chris chipped away at the ice on the driveway
 ellie all bundled up (with chris's gloves on her lap)
 she LOVES being outside
 the men are way in the back...
 we hit up the new developments at the back end of the division. personally i LOVE this house. i want to snoop in it....maybe ill take a stroll out on monday when the workers are there (the houses are locked when the workers are gone and for the most part they are fine with us neighbours walking through them)  nyways, i love it!  now i want to build another house.....but thats another story. nothing bigger than what we have now, just more compact and more in tune with our lifestyle....chris.....cough....haha
 back to the winter fun!
 watching nate slide. and slide. and slide
 and slide
 it was beautiful out!
 now its ellie's turn
 and they went down! only once. they wiped out and ellie wanted back in the safety of her sled. ha
and  more sledding!  it was fun and i did my 1 time outside activity....cant wait till the snow is gone. speaking of they are calling for a storm today......oya.... 0 comments